Sunday, January 23, 2022

Rachele Sullivan, nee Rachele Cordova Pasco, December 17, 1967 – January 17, 2022: "I will be a most excellent Ancestor. When my Creator Calls me home. I love you all so very much. Hugs, Rachele" via IG @sullivanrachele +UPDATE: In a 1st, San Francisco park to bear name of leather leader

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Beloved by so many, Rachele Sullivan (nee Rachele Cordova Pasco) drew her last breath in the full moon’s light close beside family on 17 January 2022 in Pittsburg, California (USA). *****We now send much love to Rachele’s only son, Sebastian Sullivan; her mother, Raquel Cordova Pasco (m. Ernesto Abatayo Pasco, RIP); her sisters Josiebel Pasco Vargas (m. Jay Vargas, SF), Ernestine Pasco Sanchez (m. Dario Sanchez, Pittsburg), and Erleen Pasco Rosendo (m. Felipe Rosendo, Jr., San Jose); and to all the many nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts and uncles in five generations of extended families who’ve traditionally gathered – in celebration as well as sadness – for decades. Many traveled to be with her before she transitioned. Now Rachele joins honored ancestors – her beloved father, Ernesto Abatayo Pasco and his parents, Josefa Abatayo Pasco and Florentino Pasco, as well as her maternal grandparents Felimon Maypa Cordova and Hombelina Ibabao Cordova. In this season of Philippine festivals in the family’s ancestral province, Aklan’s Ati-Atihan drumbeats pulse with spirits welcoming all home. ***** Rachel would speak of her birthplace as Yelamu (San Francisco) on Ramaytush Ohlone lands. Through the hard work and sacrifices of nurturing immigrant parents Raquel and Ernie, all Pasco sisters attended Star of the Sea Elementary School and graduated from Presentation High School. From childhood on, the Pasco sisters valued lifelong family friendships of the Filipino American Association of Star of the Sea Church (FAASTAR), an organization co-founded by their parents and other Filipino immigrant families in the 1970’s. While quite young, the Pasco sisters and friends organized and led FAASTAR’s first youth group. Family elders also invited the children to activities of other pioneering Filipino organizations in San Francisco and beyond. Deeply grounded in family/community, Rachele’s commitments to community service, forged since childhood, would spiral out to include advocacy and grass roots organizing in increasingly diverse communities. *****
In the video, "FOLSOM FOREVER - Frameline Q&A for Encore excerpt preview," Rachele relates how her work with Folsom Street Fair began.(Screenshot is edited from the 2013 YouTube video.) She describes in more detail the impact --the camaraderie, the lessons learned, memories, fierceness -- of the leather community on her life in the 2015 HIV Story Project and the National AIDS Memorial Grove’s 2016 video interview, “Unsung Heroes: the Leather Community’s Response to AIDS.” Most recently, the SF Leather and LGBTQ Cultural District @SFLeatherDist tweeted a photo of the ribbon cutting (actually a leather cord ;) ceremony to open the district: “We are saddened to hear of the passing of Rachele Sullivan. Rachele was one of the founders of the LEATHER and LGBTQ Cultural District. She worked tirelessly to help launch the District and was the first chair of our Land Use Committee.”
Folsom Street’s FB page includes additional tributes for Rachele and notes that: “Her impact on our communities and on Folsom Street’s growth and commitment to safety and inclusion cannot be overstated. We would not have the Playground, our current safe space for women of every kind, and all trans and nonbinary people at our fairs if it were not for her tireless work.” Additionally, Rachele's "longer history of volunteering for an AIDS & HIV clinic in San Francisco” is cited in the 2021 volume of “Worldwide Leaders in Healthcare” where Rachele is listed as a Registered Nurse and Recognized Traditional Healer.
Though Rachele launched her professional nursing career with a degree from the College of Marin decades ago, she continued her education through her lifetime journey as a healer. As recently as August 2021, @Swedish health system of Seattle announced Rachele’s Doula Diversity Scholarship Award: "...she has routinely sought education from elders and culture bearers in the healing arts, traditional midwifery and birthwork -- and in turn, she has educated others in the ways of alternative medicine practices, the modern model of medicine and best nursing practices." In an online nursing profile, Rachele describes her work as a recognized Traditional Healer who has been a holistic nurse for over three decades: “I call myself a hilot practitioner, which is a healing tradition that comes from the Philippines. What I do falls under the definition of a Hilot practitioner and beyond. A healing session with me is based on what a person needs to help them feel lighter in body, mind, and soul. I am given permission to enter their realms - all of their elements, their spiritual bodies, etheric bodies, etc. It’s like peeling layers, and the layer that is most stuck calls to me, whether the person wants to address it or not” expressed Rachele. https://www.issuewire.com/rachele-pasco-sullivan-rn-registered-nurse-1681287055167981?utm_source=twitter - In addition to combining indigenous healing methods with contemporary nurse’s training, Rachele brings her unique gift of intense spiritual energy, evident since childhood, to each loving connection during her healing practice. Healer/artivist/truthspeaker Sammay wrote of finding in Rachele: “…a seer sent to earth (dressed in all-leather tyvm) to elevate the entire village. a messenger entrusted with the prophecies of the divine. A living embodiment of our ancestors’ most radiant of dreams. With a boisterous laughter and vivacious stride – you walked between worlds and navigated many realms in your service to our healing.”
Indeed, Rachele expanded all our horizons as she intentionally lived a life so full of heart and meaning, embodying all she values. Rachel began her 50th birthday celebration at a Filipino arts event in the South of Market (SOMA) neighborhood; went on to support a cultural fundraiser for indigenous peoples; toasted boba over cake and birthday songs sung by a kindred spirit healer, all before meeting up with community brothers at a leather bar. Rachele’s work would have ripple effects that are global: Working with kindred spirits – close friends and other healers – they’d facilitate workshops with Yoruba spiritual leaders as well as with indigenous people of the Pacific Northwest and beyond. Coming full circle, Rachele actively shared passions for family history and ancestral knowledge with the youngest generation of family. One day Tita Rachele mapped out and drove four generations of family, including her mom's young great-grandchildren, on a road trip through family history: They first joined a Philippine Independence Day cultural celebration organized by an aunt in Tracy (CA); stopped to pay respects at the gravesites of family ancestors who’d been among the first in the clan to settle in California, and enjoyed Filipino food in Stockton (CA) before watching the Little Manila Rising (http://littlemanila.org ) showcase at San Joaquin Delta College where “Granny” (Rachele’s mom) had studied as a teen in the 1950s. ***** Dearest Rachele, As a mother, daughter, sister, aunt, niece, cousin, ally, healer, teacher, nurse, organizer, mentor and fabulous friend who transforms the world near and far – you will be missed by families/communities across the globe. Your loving spirit and wisdom will continue to guide us forever as we share your legacy while fully embracing your last words @sullivanrachele on IG: "I will be a most excellent Ancestor. When my Creator Calls me home.. I love you all so very much. Hugs, Rachele” *****((The family thanks our communities for all the many ways you've supported Rachele, especially in these recent months. A Venmo account @PascoSullivan has been created to fund funeral costs and other expenses. Any additional funds raised will go towards supporting her son, Sebastian, as he faces moving into adulthood without his beloved mother. )) *****Photo credits: (top photo) - Tita Rachele bringing Easter bunny rabbit's treats to grand-nieces and nephews in 2016, photo by AJM @ForCommunities; screenshot edited from video "FOLSOM FOREVER - Frameline Q&A for Encore excerpt preview"; 19 Janurary 2022: tweet @sfLeatherdist (collaged by ajm); tweet @swedish Health System of Seattle, WA; screen cap from multimedia gift to Rachele from The Bangka Journey / "Balik Sa Dagat" visionary Mylene Cahambing

Wednesday, August 22, 2018

Dr. Dawn Bohulano Mabalon #DawnMabalonIsInTheHeart

Dr. Dawn Bohulano Mabalon August 17, 1972 - August 10, 2018

Dawn Bohulano Mabalon, 45, died suddenly on August 10, 2018 in Hawai’i, on a family vacation she’d dreamed about and organized.

She is survived by her beloved husband of nearly 10 years, Jesus Perez Gonzales; her sister Darleen Mabalon; nieces and godchildren Tayondee and Nonaiya, and nephew Cayden; her mom Christine Bohulano Bloch; her uncle Delfin Bohulano, Jr. (Wendy); aunts Virginia Bohulano, Adeline Bohulano Suguitan (Mel), and her uncle Tex Mabalon, Sr. - together with her large family of cousins, nieces, godchildren, godparents. Preceding her in death are her grandparents Delfin Paderes Bohulano and Concepcion Paloma Moreno Bohulano; her aunt Florencia Mabalon Pastrana, her father Ernesto Tirona Mabalon, and grandparents Pablo Macavinta Mabalon and Isabel Timtiman Tirona Mabalon. Of the Mabalon family, “five generations deep,” Dawn writes: “We are all the seeds they planted in America, now almost 100 of us, flourishing because of their (ancestors’) sacrifices.” 

Dawn cherished family and the community they continue to build in Stockton, California. She’d forever identify with the Filipino community of the historic “Little Manila” in Stockton’s Southside. Growing up in a tightly knit neighborhood of people of color with aunts and uncles everywhere, “Everyone watched out for you,” Dawn says. From winning Stockton’s spelling bee as a youth to winning national competition that led her to New York as guest editor of teen magazine Sassy soon after graduating from Edison High School, Dawn excelled. She published numerous articles in nationally distributed newspapers and magazines - all before age 20.

From San Joaquin Delta College, Dawn went on to earn a Master’s degree from UCLA - where her fierce Stockton Southside stance and gaze (Watch out!) shaped rhythms of Dawn’s powerful spoken word poetry as well as her lifelong passion and activism for justice. At UCLA, she began her rigorous scholarship that addressed gender, community displacement, youth organizing and more. 

Yet Dawn didn’t just write about community displacement, she fought for the historic preservation of her beloved Little Manila. She says, “In 1997…that's when the demolition started. And that’s when we started the Little Manila Foundation [now Little Manila Rising] and I was essentially going to seminars at Stanford and then rushing back home on the freeway filming the demolition…it ended up being a non-profit that is... amazing for what it’s been able to do
 for our youth. And now we've been able to save the three original
 buildings, and it’s been incredible.”


Dawn became one of the first Pinays to earn a doctorate degree - a PhD in history - from Stanford University. Her dissertation eventually became the award winning book, “Little Manila is in the Heart: The making of the Filipina/o American community in Stockton, California,” now in its 6th printing. Of her book, Dawn says, “It really was a love letter to my family, to my community, to my elders and really putting my hometown on the proverbial Filipino American map. I had always believed and many of the elders believed that Stockton was Filipino America's hometown.”  

As an Associate Professor in history at San Francisco State University, she also became part of the Pin@y Partnership Program (PEP family). Dawn’s love for teaching/learning - sustained by love for/by family/community/history/legacy - is imprinted on the souls of so many blessed to engage with her. Just search #DawnMabalonIsInTheHeart on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram for unending testimonies to her brilliant legacy as a “dope professor who still sounds like a homegirl” and who has transformed lives - as a friend, comadre, mentor, fellow warrior, scholar, teacher.

When Dawn graduated from UCLA, Uncle Fred Cordova (Founding President Emeritus of the Filipino American National Historical Society where Dawn served as National Scholar) wrote:
“It is an honor to welcome an Aklanon of the Pamilya ng Cordova to the scholarly ranks of the learned. Your Lolo Ambo would be so proud and all of our departed loved ones…” 

Dawn now joins them.


Dawn so loved being Auntie/Ninang to her mga inaanak (godchildren) and nieces and nephews. With her husband Jesse, they’ve been teaching them how to cook their grandparents’ recipes, and to honor history and legacies. 

Now they - and all of us - will continue to honor Dawn’s powerful legacy…
…with love,
@ForCommunities, 
Ninang /Auntie/Cousin Joan May Timtiman Cordova
For more tributes, see https://www.littlemanila.org/ https://fanhs-national.org

Thursday, October 8, 2009

D. Lee Inosanto @ "The Sensei" Stockton Premiere, 17 October 2009


"The Sensei"
STOCKTON PREMIERE with DIANA LEE INOSANTO Director/Actress

Saturday - October 17, 2009

Two Screenings: 2 pm & 6:30 pm / Reception between screenings
Tillie Lewis Theater @ San Joaquin Delta College

5151 Pacific AvenueStockton, California 95207
$5 suggested donation
Sponsored by: Delta College Asian and Pacific Islander American Staff Association (APIASA) and Delta Cultural Awareness Program (CAPS)
For more info: Debra Louie 209.473.3821 or Joan.May.Cordova@post.harvard.edu


Meet Director/Actress Diana Lee Inosanto at the Stockton premiere of her movie, "The Sensei." http://blog.thesenseimovie.com/

With the Inosanto family's legendary history deeply rooted in Stockton, California, this premiere will be like a homecoming for Diana Lee Inosanto (aka D. Lee Inosanto). Her grandparents Mary Arca Inosanto and Sebastian Inosanto, as well as other founders of Trinity Presbyterian Church in Stockton's historic Little Manila neighborhood, all offered support to striking Filipino farmworkers in 1939. Within the extended Arca and Inosanto families are generations of community leaders and educators including Flora Arca Mata, the first Filipina teacher in Stockton's history. We welcome everyone to two screenings of this special Stockton premiere of "The Sensei."

http://www.myspace.com/thesenseimovie


A DIFFERENT KIND OF MARTIAL ARTS FILM: A Different Kind of Martial Arts Film: D. Lee Inosanto's 'The Sensei' battles prejudice and homophobia in 1980s small town in Colorado


If there's one thing D. Lee Inosanto is no stranger to, it's martial arts. Her father is martial arts legend Dan Inosanto, her godfather was the late Bruce Lee (whom she refers to simply as "Uncle Bruce"), and Inosanto herself is a highly trained martial artist who has worked as a stunt person on projects from Buffy the Vampire Slayer to Face/Off. So when Inosanto decided to write, direct and star in her first feature film, it made sense that it would take place in the world she knows so well. But what might catch people off guard is the story she chose to tell.
Inosanto's feature, The Sensei, is set in a small Colorado town in 1985, the early years of the AIDS epidemic. McClain (played by Mike O'Laskey) is a gay teenager who is constantly being ostracized. He tries to sign up for classes at the local martial arts dojo to learn to protect himself, but they won't accept him either. Enter Karen (D. Lee Inosanto), the black sheep of the family that runs the dojo who returns to the town after several years away. Karen privately trains McClain, and the two develop a friendship until a secret Karen harbors changes everything.
Tackling issues like AIDS and homophobia in a martial arts setting may seem odd, but it made perfect sense to Inosanto. The inspiration came from a family friend named Gilbert Johnson who was an editor/ publisher of martial arts subjects.

"He was the first person I knew to contract AIDS," Inosanto said. "He was a straight man, a very conservative man - the last person you would expect to get AIDS. But in his final months, he became an activist - marching alongside the gay community. He was one of my favorite people."
By the mid-'90s, AIDS had impacted major sports figures like Magic Johnson. Inosanto's own cousin came out around this time as a lesbian, and Matthew Shepherd was killed in a high-profile hate crime. All inspired Inosanto to write The Sensei. "Being a child of a mixed marriage instilled in me the idea that any type of prejudice is wrong," she said. "That was the drive behind the film."

Shot on a low budget, the project faced many hurdles on the way to the big screen. The school where the shooting was originally to take place pulled its support after realizing the lead character was a gay teen (making news nationwide when the Associated Press picked up the story), and one of the main funders pulled out after the controversy broke.

Another possible problem was the martial arts community's conservatism and its sometimes blatant homophobia.The Sensei's trailer was first screened in public at a large martial arts convention in Las Vegas where Chuck Norris' birthday was being celebrated. Inosanto worried how the trailer might be accepted, but was surprised by the reaction. "So many people came up to me afterward and said 'thank you,'" Inosanto said.

Since then, she has received similar reactions. Many of the strongest supporters are martial artists who are gay but in the closet, or others who cannot openly take a stance.
"This one guy in Alaska said his black belt would be stripped away if he took in a gay student," she said. "Even with all the progress, it's clear we still have a long way to go."
Article by Philip W. Chung, a writer and co-artistic director of Lodestone Theatre Ensemble. Lodestone's latest production of Trapezoid runs until May 25 in L.A.: lodestonetheatre.org.
In photo (l-r): FloraMay Paguyo Teague, Dr. JoanMay Cordova, Diana Lee Inosanto, Elena Mangahas, Sonia Jhao, Dr. Dawn Bohulano Mabalon (RIP, 2018), Adeline Bohulano Suguitan

Friday, April 3, 2009

Possibilities: Thank you Diane & Letty and others...


The following letter is from good friend Diane Rhonemus. We met in the pre-school class at First Presbyterian Church in Stockton long ago, even before Trinity had its own DVCS (daily vacation church school). I still have photos from that time and may post them ;-)


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Happy Spring



Sunday, March 29, 2009 8:47 PM
From:
"D Rhonemus"


Hi, Joan May,

How busy are you at this moment? How many other things do you have going on right now? Me? I can only do one at a time. Did you just get through travelling again? My Spring Break is over and I am not ready to return. It feels like summer out...warm and relaxing. Bad weather to be stuck indoors working.



Time for Tree business. The inevitable has happened. The 3 majestic trees have fallen. Letty Perez took pictures. I told my mom that one picture shows one tree standing and another lying in the parking lot. It reminded me of a fallen soldier with his/her buddy looking on. But from the base of one, shoots arose. How sturdy they are and with such fortitude. Letty Perez was able to save 2 rounds or slices from one of the trunks. We may be able to get a few more slices before the stumps are unrooted.



Letty Perez and several others would like to use one slice to keep as a memorial. Their idea was to have a metal plaque secured to it once it has been planed and varnished and then have it placed in an appropriate place. She asked me to ask you for suggestions about what wording you might like on the plaque and also if you had any ideas where to place it (be careful with idea now, Joan May :-) . The wording could be as simple as "In memory of Braulio and Tranquilina Cordova" with dates or anything else you would prefer. Also, Letty P. thought the round could be placed near future trees. I personally don't see other trees happening in the next 5 years. It would be nice if small chairs could be made out of a round/slice or two for the children since you worked often with them. The slices aren't quite wide enough for a table, I dont think. They seem to be about 2 ft in diameter. Letty P. also spoke of maybe laying ceramic tiles on one for a small table. Someone could design a picture and DVBS children could glue the tiles on. All just ideas for the time being.

Think about these things, Joan May. I know it isn't much consolation. The trees were planted so the wood would be harvested from time to time. How would Rev. Litherland or your parents use the wood? What thoughtful, appropriate memorial could we make? We need to do justice with this fiasco in some way. We still pray for understanding.

Let me know your thoughts.

Happy Bunny time,

Diane

P.S. I cut off one of the shoots and will wave it in church next Sunday for my Palm!


YOU are God's gift to the world!

Trees are down :-(


-Photo of cousin Dr. Dawn B. Mabalon by Jesse P. Gonzalez


Since we've found out the news of "expanding the parking lot" there have been posts from family and friends in Chicago, Florida, Boston, Michigan, Philadelphia, the San Francisco Bay Area and elsewhere. And here are the last two definitive posts by Lina of Stockton on my Facebook wall:


Lina Reyes Sanchez sorry, joanie....just drive by about 4pm...trees are gone.
March 28 at 7:37pm ·

Lina Reyes Sanchez joanie - trees were still up as of 27th noon. I hope they changed their minds!! have a great weekend, Lina
March 28 at 5:14am ·



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Prior to this other family members wrote:

Hi Auntie Joan May,

It's really sad how this has all come about. I asked Chuck [Gardella] how much it would be to move and replant the trees and he said it could be in the $75K range. He suggested maybe getting seedlings from these trees and replanting them or if the church can put up a grove of flowering trees as a memorial, perhaps. I know it's not the same, but at least it would be something.

Bern Cordova Gardella

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March 16, 2009

Hi Auntie Joan May,

This is so sad to hear! It amazes me that the landscaper can not figure out a plan to work around those beautiful trees. Tony and I will pray that those making these decisions will find it in their hearts to salvage the trees. If not, is there anyway you can obtain parts of the tree and have a wood sculptor create a beautiful artpiece from it? We would be happy to give some monetary contribution for it.

If it is any comfort, Uncle Baoy and Auntie Nina's legacy will always continue through our hearts and minds. The mention of their names always tug at our hearts. They touched so many people and will never be forgotten. Wish our kids could have known them.

With love and hope,
Annchella & Tony Cordova Dalida


There are others.

Monday, March 16, 2009

Apologies but no dialogue


From: Rev. Byron Nelson, Interim Pastor
Trinity Presbyterian Church, Stockton, CA


Dear Dr. Cordova,
Thank you for writing again.Your arguments and concerns about our larger issues are important for Trinity to hear. But though the trees were still standing yesterday, there is no decision to change the plan. I am at fault in two things at least. One for not offering a clear apology to you in my first letter, for not contacting you in advance.

Although I have not been aware of a stated policy to let memorial donors have final say in any changes to memorials, you should have been contacted, and asked your feelings.

And second, I know better than not to make sure the committee researched any memorials before any final plans. I offer you my own apology for that failure and lack of respect for your concerns.

I have heard of one occasion when someone may have spoken falsely about your giving permission for this plan. If true, I cannot fathom why that was said, and am sorry for the additional injury upon injury of such a statement.

The prospect of "saving" the trees in any other way than keeping them where they are, is not something anyone seems to have the will to consider.

As to the parking spaces, this has been a decision not because of Trinity's immediate need, but a long-range consideration for additional parking that would be required if Trinity were to build an additional multi-purpose facility within the next 5 years. For this reason, doing all the grading and clearing now became a priority in the plan, just as the removal of all trees is

I cannot read your letters without feeling both your passion for such important issues, and for your family heritage and history at Trinity. And as a newcomer, I feel helpless to know what more to say to you. I do know that for many members still, the legacy of your family's contributions here, as well as your own, continue as part of Trinity's oral history and tradition, even if they have forgotten about the memorial in the eucalyptus trees.

I only plead for your prayers that our elders and members who are trying to make some changes, will be able to balance both respect for the past, and vision for the future. Apart from the issue of trees and parking spaces, for us to do ministry in the future as a "house of prayer for all nations", we have great challenges for change and transformation.

I am grateful for your conversation and will appreciate your continued prayers for all of us.

Sincerely,
Byron Nelson


--- On Sat, 3/14/09, Dr JoanMay T Cordova joan.may.cordova@post.harvard.edu


March 14, 2009



Dear Rev. Nelson:

Thank you for your letter on behalf of the Session. Indeed, it was the first and only correspondence from Trinity that I've ever received in regard to the proposed landscaping plan that's so unnecessarily destructive. I strongly believe that there is no value in destroying all existing trees for the sake of "landscaping" or "beautification." What message is Trinity conveying to youth about the value of destroying life?

Our planet is fragile, perhaps more vulnerable than at any other time in history. Current environmental crises remind us daily that the world doesn't need more parking lots, more cars and pollution, or any other forces that destroy life.


Trinity is a historic church with roots in the "Little Manila" neighborhood of Stockton: http://www.littlemanila.net/ For more info on Trinity church's history, please also see Voices: A Filipino American Oral History (Filipino Oral History Project, Inc,. 1984, & 2000) Voices cites excerpts from "The History of Trinity Presbyterian Church" by the late Sebastian Inosanto who describes the church's role in a historic asparagus strike in Stockton. And there's so much more history. What message is Trinity sending -- by destroying a living memorial -- about honoring memories, histories, and legacies?

As national president of FANHS, the Filipino American National Historical Society http://
fanhsis25.blogspot.com I had hoped that the FANHS national trustees and many others throughout the country would visit our historic Trinity Presbyterian Church. There are future FANHS national events planned for Stockton. The first will happen in July, 2009, when FANHS national trustees will meet in Stockton.

I think that members of my extended family might like to visit as well.

Will they see holes in the ground where Cordova memorial trees once stood?

In regard to this landscaping plan, is anyone at Trinity open to negotiation? To compromise? To more dialogue?

Has anyone considered the option of moving and replanting the eucalyptus trees?

Or is the decision to begin destroying trees a "done deal" at this point? Are they being destroyed even as I type?

It's my understanding that when decisions are made about memorial gifts, families are contacted as an expression of respect. Trinity families have decided, for example, what should happen when the memorial organ needed to be replaced. It's not clear why no one contacted me about Trinity's landscaping plan. Every single year I have been contacted for fundraising/pledge requests and have been most generous to Trinity even during the decades when I've been geographically absent. Had I been invited to the congregational meetings to discuss decisions about landscaping, I would have attempted to fly out for the meeting. At the very least, I would have sent family and friends to speak on my behalf. Many would have gladly done so.

I pray for everyone involved in this lamentable decision, especially for those who haven't been honest about this process. I look forward to hearing from you soon.

With hope,
~Dr. Joan May T. Cordova
http://forourcommunities.blogspot.com/